Your union does not have to become stale simply because you’ve been with your partner for a while, nor does it have to lack passion because of your lifestyle or personality type. Let your lover know how you truly feel by expressing yourself in a fun and flirty fashion. The following tips and tricks should help:
Start Pampering One Another
Nothing says love and passion like thoughtful acts of service. In fact, it’s listed as one of the famous Five Love Languages penned by Dr. Gary Chapman. The easy-to-read and understand handbook describes pampering your partner as a key component to lasting affection. Aside from that, though, most people enjoy having someone do things for them from time to time. Babying your baby should come naturally, but life can get in the way. By prioritizing your relationship above more trivial pursuits and taking some initiative at the right time, it’s much easier to pamper one another and begin rekindling the flames of passion as a result.
Take a Break from It
All Monotony can wreck a relationship faster than infidelity and poverty combined. While lovers often forgive one another for bad decisions, there’s nobody to blame when the union goes stale and that leaves many people searching in the wrong place for answers. Instead, take a short vacation to get away from your ho-hum existence for a bit. It’s like pushing the reset button on your relationship. Getaways allow you and your lover to see each other in a different light and under new circumstances, giving you both the opportunity to recall why you fell in love in the first place. A lovers’ retreat can be simple or elaborate but it should always be somewhere outside the house.
Be More Spontaneous
It’s important to be a bit impulsive to secure your passionate bond. A lack of spontaneity is listed as one of the top ten reasons why people cheat on their partner. So, not only does monotony kill passion it also murders fidelity. Although a nice couple’s vacation may take some time to plan, simpler things can be done at the spur of the moment to establish or re-establish a zealous connection between you and your lover. Things like unplanned dinners, completed favors, surprise tickets to an event, fun games and/or sudden sensual massages go a long way towards boosting morale.
Introduce Your Partner to the Wonderful World of Se*x Toys
To quote one of the best-known sex toy experts on the planet, John James, “Se*x toys play an important role in any relationship dynamic, especially for partners who lack the necessary tools to maintain passion in the bedroom. Not only do high-quality marital aids act as ergonomic substitutes for what our brains and bodies lack but they also provide mankind with a safe and effective means by which they can pleasure themselves or prepare for pleasure from a lover.” Well said, Mr. James, but while the boys love their toys, the topic isn’t exactly table talk for most women. So, although men are typically less inhibited when it comes to using remote-controlled or battery-powered devices, the ladies may need a bit more coaxing. How about this: Recent studies suggest that women take longer to climax and then experience an orgasm that’s 2-3 times longer than the average male. Without a good toy on hand to bridge the gap, someone might not get theirs.
Buy Your Lover Gifts
Most people don’t want to admit it, but they love receiving surprise gifts from someone they care about. In many cases, however, asking for a specific item is considered rude. Don’t force your lover into submission that way or else you’ll pay the penalty in passion. Instead, intermittently purchase small, thoughtful or sexy gifts for your betrothed. The items don’t have to be elaborate or expensive to get the job done. The main idea is to make your lover feel wanted again. Gifts make your desires more tangible, releasing the inhibitions and anxieties that some people experience, especially in a long-term relationship.